Why do I always attract the same type of person?

Why do I always attract the same type of person? It feels like I’m stuck in a loop, and honestly, it’s exhausting.

You meet someone new, you’re convinced this time is different, and then—six months later—you’re dealing with the exact same heartbreak. It’s like the universe is playing a prank on your love life.

But the planets aren’t trying to punish you. When I look at someone’s chart, especially with Venus hanging out in Taurus like it is right now, it’s about what we value. If you keep finding partners who don't show up for you, you have to ask what you think you deserve.

This might sound backwards, but your patterns are usually just your comfort zone in disguise. We keep picking people who confirm what we already believe about ourselves.

Because Venus is currently in Taurus, it’s actually a beautiful time to reset your standards. Taurus is all about self-worth and grounding. It’s not just about who you date; it’s about how you honor yourself when you’re alone.

I’ve been tracking these transits for years, and whenever I feel that familiar pull toward a 'type' I know is bad for me, I check my own chart on the Vyom app just to see which house is being triggered. It helps me see the pattern before I act on it.

So, next time you feel that spark, pause. Don’t look at them. Look at what they’re mirroring back to you.

Are they showing you your growth? Or are they just holding a mirror to your old, unresolved stuff?

You have the power to break the cycle. You just have to decide that you’re done with the lesson.