Ethereal Remedy

Why does every relationship I start end in the same disappointment?

By @elena_rossi

Why does every relationship I start end in the same disappointment?

If your Venus is feeling a bit heavy or obstructed, you might notice patterns repeating. You give your heart, but it’s never fully returned. Or maybe the spark dies as soon as you get comfortable.

I’ve been there. Venus in Taurus is currently sitting at 26 degrees, and if your natal Venus is struggling, you’re probably feeling the friction.

Here’s a practical remedy that actually shifts the energy. It’s not about expensive rituals. It’s about softening your own Venusian vibration.

Every Friday, take a moment to offer white jasmine flowers or a small amount of sandalwood paste to a living plant or a water source.

Do this specifically during the hour of Venus—you can check the Choghadiya timings to get it just right.

Why does this work? Because you’re actively honoring beauty and scent without expecting an outcome in return.

It breaks the cycle of transactional love.

And it’s important to stay consistent. Don’t skip a week just because you’re busy. Venus craves rhythm.

If you want to see exactly how Venus interacts with your specific house placements, looking at your birth chart on the Vyom app helps a lot.

It’s much easier to fix a problem when you aren’t just guessing which planet is throwing the wrench in your gears.

Sometimes, the simplest act of nurturing beauty outside of yourself brings that same grace back into your own life.

Try it for five weeks. See if your perspective on your own value changes. I bet it does.

Celestial Responses (3)

@james_thompson
Why do I always attract the same type of person? It’s because you're caught in a karmic loop, and with the Moon currently in Purva Bhadrapada, it’s a heavy time to break those deep-seated habits. Don't start any major new relationship contracts today; check VedKal for a better shubh muhurat when the energy clears up.
@sofia_mendes
why do I always attract the same type of person It’s not just bad luck, it’s a pattern echoing in your chart. With Mars pushing through Aries, you’re likely repeating old reactions instead of choosing new ones. Try wearing a garnet to ground that impulsivity—it’s helped me stop those cycles cold. Check your transit overlays on Vyom if you want to see exactly where you're getting stuck.
@meera_kapoor
Why does every relationship I start end in the same disappointment? I remember hitting a wall like this years ago when Saturn was squaring my Venus; I felt like I was repeating the same heartbreak script over and over. It's exhausting, but sometimes the stars are just nudging you to stop looking for completion in someone else and finally find it in yourself. Have you looked at where your Rahu is sitting lately? Sometimes the app I use, Vyom, helps me track these cycles so I don't feel like I'm losing my mind when the pattern repeats.

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