Why does my life fall apart every few years?

Why does my life fall apart every few years? I remember asking this exact question while staring at a ceiling fan three years ago. I’d lost my job, my lease was up, and my partner just walked out. It felt like the ground had vanished.

I used to think it was just bad luck. But when I looked at my transits, I realized I was fighting a cycle I didn't understand. I had Saturn crossing a sensitive point, and I was trying to hold onto things that were meant to be burned away.

Looking at the current sky, we’ve got some heavy energy. Saturn is in Pisces, right in that space of shedding old illusions. If you’re feeling like you’re hitting a wall, check where Saturn is hitting your chart. It’s rarely about punishment. It’s usually about clearing out the dead weight you’ve been carrying since your last cycle began.

I’ve started using Vyom to map these transits so I don’t get blindsided when things go quiet.

But here’s the thing people don't talk about. When things crumble, we try to rebuild the exact same house. That’s why the cycle repeats. You get hit, you patch the holes, and you wait for the next storm.

Maybe the point isn't to rebuild. Maybe the point is to change the foundation entirely.

Are you holding onto a structure that stopped serving you a long time ago? Because that’s usually why the universe has to step in and shake the walls.

I’m curious—when you look back at your own 'falling apart' periods, did you notice a pattern? Or did you just try to ignore the cracks until it was too late? Let’s talk about it.